Holiday Breaks

"Tis is the season to be jolly"...indeed I love the month of Dec the best. Not only my birthday falls on this month but also as family, we spent most time to be together especially when hubby is taking lots of breaks from office. The children are particulary very thrilled to have daddy at home most of the time...nothing beats that.

Lately had a family who are facing some family crisis, it really breaks my heart to see a once "perfect" family to be fallen into such state. Both parents are considering the separation path and it aches me to see their children have to bear the brunt as a result of their decision.

Life is not perfect, we should know that. Before committing into marriage, one should have given a serious thought of not only happiness but also "sorrow" in a marriage. It should not be just a matter of heart business but also mind matters. Once a friend told me that marriage is just like an investment, yes I do agree to certain extent. Except in investment, if crisis hits, we only lose the money. However in a family life, it destroys the hope of the children, spouses, friends, relatives and everything that was promised during the solemnization ceremony.

It's not easy to understand each one's marriage difficulties but only one thing I am sure is that we need to know why we want to commit and spend our life together with the same person for the next 50 years? Let's ponder over the question seriously before taking the plunge in accepting the proposal. It's definitely worth giving a thought on this.

As for me, I know for sure whether life ahead is rough or difficult, my hubby and myself will stick with one another no matter what. This is because of our deep understanding and mutual trust that we have built over years and I can confidently assured that I will always have someone beside who constantly care and love me forever till death do us apart.